Many people on the autism spectrum have gone through their lives searching for ways to understand themselves. Without a diagnosis, they often have not had a clear understanding of why they are having the difficulties they are. Others around them are also frustrated and may ask themselves what is happening to me, the person I love, or the person I work with? Why is it so hard to have relationships with one other?
Because people don't know what they're dealing with, they have often had painful and confusing social, learning and work-related experiences and have gotten message that they are not good enough the way they are. It has often felt like others in their lives react like it's their fault or they intend to be this way. Teachers, therapists, friends, family, and employers have been equally challenged by not knowing what's going on, and are often themselves searching for answers.
In a diagnostic assessment we use a variety of tools to try and find some answers to your difficulties. This begins with a conversation between you and I, because I want to know your perspective on these difficulties and I want to know how you understand yourself. It's also going to involve what the world of psychology calls "standardized measures", which are tools aimed at understanding your specific developmental difficulties in the areas of social, communication, sensory responsivity, and areas of interest. I also want to know what those that are in relationship with you have observed about these domains. Then we are going to put all of this information together to create a picture of your specific neurological strengths and challenges, and determine if you have an autism spectrum disorder.
After we gain an understanding of your neurological strengths and differences we can start to create strategies to make your environment and relationships work better for everyone. People tend to like themselves better when they understand what's happening, so you may experience a better sense of self and self-worth. You will also be in a position to develop strategies for sensory accommodations, and ways to organize yourself and manage your time.
Personal relationships usually improve once you both know what you're dealing with. You will be able to build on a shared understanding of what's happening in your marriage, family and friendships, and develop individualized work and school accommodations to make interactions in those environments more successful for everyone.